Life of a Kept Woman

I want to chronicle this particular niche - a woman being well cared for by a man for no other reason than it fulfills them both.

Location: San Francisco Bay Area, California, United States

In 2001, I stopped working and focused on having the most pleasurable and fulfilling life possible. Today, I have succeeded my wildest expectations. A “kept woman” is a woman who is being supported comfortably by a man for reasons having nothing to do with marriage, children, or sex. We are intelligent women, who know there is more to life than proving yet again we can do it just as well as men. We are choosing lives of comfort and service, but only to the extent that it pleases us. The men who support us do so because they see it as their best move for a rich life with a partner who can create a lifestyle based on having the best of what life has to offer for them both. The best is everything from cocktails at sunset to cycling together mid-day to serving the poor.

Wednesday, April 06, 2005

On Becoming a Kept Woman

So you think you’d like to be a kept woman?

As Michael Naumer - my late teacher and relationship coach - once said, “It’s simple, just not so easy.”

You don’t have to be drop-dead gorgeous or even classically pretty. Nor do you have to be cunning, or well connected. What you DO have to do is:

  1. be willing to have fun,
  2. be deeply committed to your own pleasure and know your heart’s desire
  3. be willing to tell the truth,
  4. get your value from who you’re doing not from what you are doing
  5. be willing to have even more fun
  6. be creative,
  7. be able to turn on a dime from whiney little girl to a mature woman with sense of humor and a willing to forgive and be forgiven,
  8. let go of the career aspirations your parents gave you,
  9. be interested in serving others and/or the world,
  10. be willing to have even more fun,
  11. take a leap of faith into uncharted territory,
  12. be honest about money,
  13. say exactly what you want and have it,
  14. think big and outside of the box,
  15. be willing to have even more fun
  16. have your boyfriend be your friend and partner in the conspiracy for the highest pleasure in every aspect of your life,
  17. acknowledge the good as often as you can remember,
  18. cultivate girlfriends and partners in crime,
  19. have a good cover story, or be a clear stand for the lifestyle,
  20. willing to have the time of your life everyday.


Blogger Mali Apple + Joe Dunn said...

Just wanted you to know that we recently published a book that contains a tribute to and the wisdom of Michael Naumer. It's called The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships and is available on Amazon:

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